What’s OK to write?
Monday, April 21st, 2008by joanna
Here’s what I wanted when I initially requested a blog in September — A fun place to write about what I see and who I talk to, fun posters who respond and give good insight. A place to get into issues regarding high school sports and its athletes and its coaches. I wanted this to be an open place where what was on your mind was discussed as well.
I think all that has been accomplished.
But then there’s the other side of it — what to do when people say things that you don’t want them to? Since I’ve done the blog — and taking into consideration my 11 weeks off for maternity leave — I have deleted one comment, a pretty horrible vile comment. When you have disagreed with me and called me out and said I’m biased and gave personal info about me, the comments stayed. When you have told me I’m great and said I do a good job, it stayed up.
So what do I do when people call a coach out for recruiting? Or when someone says a player is weak or not as good as all the hype? It’s a hard line and there are some of you who have come out hard against me that I am so wrong and am stirring controversy and I don’t care and slander’s obviously OK.
Controversy:Â I really am not looking for controversy. If I see something interesting or wrong, I’ll write about it. I hope you do the same. All that stuff about papers are just interested in selling papers, well, we are a business. But that doesn’t mean I’m looking for the most ridiculous things to put up on this blog. Hello — fantasy matchup, anyone? Just a fun thing to do.
I don’t care what people write: Not true. I read everything that’s posted. Sometimes I cringe, especially when you all were calling out the Browns last fall. I didn’t like it. But I didn’t feel anyone crossed the line into that dangerous zone. I just felt people were pretty rude.
Slander: I do not condone slander. I’ve discussed the issue of the recruiting comment with an editor and an online person and have been told that they agree that it doesn’t need to be taken down. Yes there is a line, but being accused of recruiting is not the same as someone being accused of having orgies with athletes, or whatever a recent poster wrote. Coaches who win are accused of recruiting or cheating or whatever it is no matter what level they are at. Is it slander? Could be. Is it a ridiculous comment without proof? Yes. Do you have to have thick skin to be a coach? Lord yes. I could be wrong about this, but I’m betting Coach Stockam is wishing he never even responded to this. Why respond to something that is ridiculous? It was a hateful comment, let’s move on.
I know, I know, you’ll disagree with me. But as long as you aren’t vile, it will stay up on this blog. There needs to be a mutual trust here — that I’m going to be honest, that you’re going to be honest, that I’m not deleting everything that you write.
Feel free to discuss. And try to remember what this blog is about — the fun and interesting and issue-oriented topics regarding high school athletics.
Can we move on, now?
